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Courage In Leadership: The Key To Stepping Outside Your Comfort Zone And Achieving Leadership Growth

May 02, 2025
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The comfort zone sounds harmless, even productive, but it’s one of the biggest barriers to leadership growth. Instead, you need courage in leadership to make sharper decisions, challenge limiting behaviors, and achieve progress that actually moves the needle for you, your people, and your business.

Whether it’s rethinking a strategy that no longer works, having tough conversations, or facing uncomfortable but necessary truths, this blog will explore how courageous leadership is often an unseen driver behind business success. More importantly, we’ll give you practical tools to step out of your comfort zone and achieve sustainable growth.

What is Courage in Leadership?

Courage isn’t about being loud, over-the-top, or reckless. Instead, it’s about making the often-quiet decision to face discomfort and take action despite what’s in front of you.

But how is courage used in leadership, we hear you ask?

For CEOs and executives, the answer lies in powering through discomfort and being bold and brave in your decision-making. This starts by recognizing the damage your comfort zone might be doing and how it can quietly hold growth hostage.

Why Your Comfort Zone Holds Back Leadership Growth

“If you’re not getting outside of your comfort zone, then you’re not growing”. - Chad E. Foster

“The sooner you step away from your comfort zone, you’ll realize that it really wasn’t all that comfortable.” – Eddie Harris Jr

“Life begins outside of our comfort zone.” – Another gem from Chad E. Foster

There are plenty of great stepping outside of your comfort zone quotes but putting them into practice is a different story. Trust us, we’ve seen countless top CEOs delay big decisions for months, only to realize that waiting costs far more than acting ever would.

That’s why the real work comes from practical action and why the Comfort Zone Model was developed. This breaks down leadership growth into four stages, each representing a different emotional or behavioral challenge.

Stage 1 – The Comfort Zone

Most CEOs start in this zone and it’s where you do what’s familiar, safe, and energizing.

Leadership never feels risky in your comfort zone, and tasks like running a meeting, solving simple problems, or managing routine processes are handled naturally. But you aren’t exactly blowing any minds.

It’s basically the place where everything you can already do well resides. Sounds nice, right? Not quite.

This is because it’s also where the things you’re avoiding, the uncomfortable stuff that makes a real impact, are hidden away. These unlock real growth, but you won’t find them in your comfort zone. You’ll find them in your fear zone.

Stage 2 – The Fear Zone

Don’t expect the girl from The Ring to jump out of the screen here, the fear zone isn’t a jump scare from a horror movie.

Scientifically, it’s where “amygdala hijack” comes in and triggers fight, flight, or freeze. In real life, it’s where the subtle fears that result in avoidance, excuses, and procrastination hold back decision-making and progress.

Instead of hiding behind a cushion, a good way to think about fear in this context is the following:

  • False
  • Expectations
  • Appearing
  • Real

Notice anything special about this arrangement of words? They’re what fear amounts to when you break it down, and recognizing this is the first step. The next step is pushing through the fear and learning from it.

Stage 3 – The Learning Zone

The learning zone is where you act despite fear and develop new skills as a result. It can be messy and uncomfortable, even slow, but it’s the building block that can take your leadership to the next level.

You may need to sit down for this because we aren’t going to sugarcoat it; the learning zone is difficult.

However, everything you can do now, from driving to walking and talking, was once stuck in this stage. They all started life in your comfort zone and moved into your fear zone until you learned how to master them. This came from constant repetition which eventually turned into familiarity.

This familiarity eventually led to growth, which brings us nicely onto the next stage.

Stage 4 – The Growth Zone

The growth zone is where everything suddenly clicks. You’ve leaned into your discomfort, persisted through fear, and now you’re applying the new skills you’ve built. What a feeling.

This is one of the most important goals for leadership growth and indicates a steady climb toward sustainable development. But remember, it’s not the finish line; it’s your new baseline. You’ll use it as a jump-off point to face new fears, new discomforts, and new lessons, all of which will challenge your thinking repeatedly throughout life.

The goal, therefore, isn’t to stay in this stage permanently. It’s to revisit the entire cycle as often as you need, which will expand your capacity to lead.

Of course, it isn’t always easy, which is why courage is such a crucial ingredient.

 

How is Courage Used in Leadership?

Courageous leadership is key for growth and can take many forms. These include:

  • Facing fear instead of avoiding it.
  • Trying new things and risking failure.
  • Letting go of control and embracing feedback.
  • Staying persistent through discomfort.

Fear will always lead to excuses and excuses will always lead to stagnation, but demonstrating leadership courage helps you grow and step outside of your comfort zone. 

One Daily Habit to Build Courage in Leadership

Forget what Marvel movies tell you; courage isn’t saving the day once in a CGI-heavy, thrilling third act. Instead, it’s a habit you build that needs reinforcement, which is where leadership journaling comes in.

At My Daily Leadership, we don’t believe in surface-level reflection or burn books (that one’s for the Mean Girls fans, if there are any). Our structured journaling system is designed to help CEOs and executives turn intention into action. How? By identifying fear-based behaviors and rewiring patterns that keep you stuck in your comfort zone.

Unlike a teenage diary, your leadership journal becomes a compass, not a mirror, and the goal is to help you lead with clarity and courage by building awareness of:

  • Your triggers for avoidance or over-control.
  • The times fear shapes your decisions.
  • The habits that hold you back from moving forward.

As we say in the book, My Daily Leadership: A Powerful Roadmap for Leadership Success, “Real growth starts when the excuses stop”. That moment of honest reflection, even though it’s got a sting to it, is where courage starts and growth .

But don’t just take our word for it, take the word of some of the most successful CEOs and business owners in the world. The likes of Bill Gates, Richard Branson, and Mark Zuckerberg have all maintained a journal over the years, using it as a tool to clarify thoughts, reflect on experiences, and stay aligned with their professional goals.

For them, it’s a habit that helps them build resilience, cultivate change, and lead with greater intention. If it works for them, why wouldn’t it work for you?

Final Thoughts: Why Courage and Leadership Growth Go Hand in Hand

We’ve coached CEOs around the world and if we’ve learned one thing, it’s that you can’t grow if you can’t get uncomfortable. We’ve also learned that courageous leadership isn’t something you’re born with, it’s a muscle that needs strengthening repeatedly until results follow.

We’re not talking about hitting the gym and beefing up for summer, we’re talking about structured reflection and real-life application until the uncomfortable becomes natural.

Find Out More

Ready to build courageous leadership into your daily routine? Episode 24 of the Stop Managing, Start Leading podcast explores courage in leadership in detail, with practical tools to help you shift the beliefs that may be holding you back.

You’ll also find powerful insights in our book, My Daily Leadership: A Powerful Roadmap for Leadership Success. It’s packed with actionable strategies to help you lead with clarity, step beyond your comfort zone, and apply a leadership growth plan to real-world business challenges, using structured reflection to achieve what the most effective leaders do consistently. 

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